Friday, May 4, 2012

ARE YOU REALLY AWARE OF THAT WHICH YOU ARE SHARING ??


ARE YOU REALLY AWARE OF THAT WHICH YOU ARE SHARING ??


Have you ever thought what we are actually sharing with others whenever you share others' thoughts ?

Let us try to explore its intricacies.


Don't be under impression that you are sharing the message (meaning behind those words) of those quotes/thoughts stated by the writer of the thoughts.

"""In fact you are sharing your own understanding of those thoughts in the name/garb of those thoughts.""" That is why misunderstanding everywhere. Discussion goes on..goes on...no end.

Basically the words used in those thoughts carry impressions of your own understanding of those thoughts. It is like lice getting stuck to your hair and gets transported with the hair. Words in those thoughts are hair here.

Remember--------------"There is no way that you can share the understanding of the writer of the thoughts."

If they themselves (writer of the thoughts) could not communicate their messages when they were live, how the hell we can communicate what they meant by their thought.



Second part is the level of openness/understanding of the person who is reading those quotes/thoughts.

If his/her understanding is below your level of understanding he is going to absorb your understanding which is attached/stuck with those words and if his/her level is more compared to you he/she will not show any interest in those thoughts/quotes and will try to think and decipher the message on his/her own if he does not get a person having level of understanding/openness more than him/her.


Hence, my suggestion is that whenever you share others' thoughts you should be ready to explain them, if you have clearly understood...or whatever your understanding is, as others are not on same level as of you.

Otherwise sharing has no meaning other than showing attention hunger...ego trip.

If you show your understanding then we can try to go deep into the matter by way of discussion/conversation/interaction which is the main purpose of our gathering here or anywhere.

In fact this is the main purpose of any discussion i.e. trying to come to a common understanding.

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