Bold but Honest statement

A Bold Statement

I'm not hot or gorgeous.

I don't have an amazing figure or a flat stomach.

I'm far from being considered a model but, I'm me.

I eat food, I have curves, I have more fat than I should, I have scars, I have a history.

Some people love me, some like me, some hate me.

I have done good, I have done bad.

I love my PJ's and I go without makeup.

I'm random and crazy.

I don't pretend to be someone I'm not.

I am who I am, you can love me or not.

I won't change!! And if I love you, I do it with my heart!! I make no apologies for the way I am.

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~~~ Karen Karinka ~~~

Woman

Women are like the apples on trees. 

The best ones are at the top of the tree. 

The boys don’t want to reach for the good ones, because they are afraid of falling and getting hurt. 

Instead they get the apples from the ground that aren’t as good, but easy. 

So the apples at the top think something is wrong with them when in reality they are amazing! 

They have to wait for the right guy to come along.

The one who is brave enough to climb to the top of the tree!

~~~Karen Karinka ~~~

Love

The Love is simply a concept/pointer towards the binding force which is acting/present in the whole universe from subtle/energy/atomic level to the stellar level. This may be equated with gravitational force.


Attraction/lust/sex among th

e opposite genders is the minuscule part of it (Love),

but due to it (attraction/lust/sex---instinct) being completely controlled by the nature (as nature's interest is perhaps only in continuation of its various species) and 1000s of year of suppression by the society under the garb of religion and spirituality, this gets maximum attention by the human beings.


Now the situation is that whenever the word love is uttered/written/thought the compromising pictures of only male and female comes to the mind as if love means only attraction/lust/sex.

Its vastness has been forgotten.

Its not a thing which can either be exchanged or stored, but from the way people talk/write/express/discuss/debate it appears otherwise. Wherever you see/hear this is the state and it appears that love is limited to this minuscule part only.

Surrendering Means You Are No More----Only He/She/ONE (Not Two) IS

Surrendering Means You Are No More----Only He/She/ONE (Not Two) IS



I have read a story which goes like this.

Once the son of a king was serious.

The king had done everything to save his son.

But there was no hope anymore of his survival.

The prime minister said to the king to visit a famous saint as a last resort.

The king reluctantly went to the saint.

The saint came to palace and cured his son, but he asked the king, "What he is going to offer as gift/payment in lieu of his services i.e. saving his son".

The king replied ----"The whole kingdom....anything/everything ...whatever you say".

The saint smiled and said, "What he is going to do with the kingdom as he has already left his kingdom a long back (before becoming saint he was a prince)".

The saint said, " Ok, as you are ready to sacrifice/part everything, I want (ask for) you".

The king, who must have been very intelligent like king Janaka (Ashtavakra's disciple) understood the saint's point and surrendered before the saint.

The saint clarified, "Once you are mine, your whole kingdom is also mine. You are me and I am you".

The purport/pointer is

"once you merge with another i.e. the feeling of separation with another comes to naught because of unknown reasons.....in other words this happening is also known as 'surrender', you will never find anything negative in other person's act because after merger you start looking from other person's eyes as you have now no concern with what other person does. His/her doing is your doing and who does not like his/her own doing. Reason/logic completely fails. This is what real (mature) LOVE is which never fades away as it is there "not because of something, but despite everything"....this love has got itself revealed......unlike blind (immature/instinctive) love."

Its (surrender) a part or spark of the greatest surrender to the WHOLE only.

Thoughts Too Are LIVE

Thoughts Too Are LIVE


As far as our (humans) understanding/knowledge goes, everything starts from the level of thoughts which is the subtlest of all known to humans.

Then how can the thoughts, if they exist, be other than life or its expressions itself ???

Heart

Our effort is not needed at all for functioning of our heart unlike mind which appears to be requiring our effort for functioning.

Hence, if we can stop making place in the mind of others we will automatically make place in heart of others.

UNCONDITIONAL LOVE

The concept of "UNCONDITIONAL LOVE" is an utopia 

so far as human's mind is concerned 

although this is already the case for/with the whole universe including the human body as there is no other way to be in the moment.


This is exactly like other utopias...."LET GO" , "JUST BE", "BE HERE NOW", like that .

 The love is also a concept coined to point out the driving/binding force (if there is any) of the universe.

 The human mind can never conceive of or know/understand the so called love (unconditioned) because its birth,growth and existence is due to conditioning only.

The love of mother with her child is said to be nearest to the so called "unconditional love", but if it is investigated it can easily be found out that this love is because of "association"(living together) factor.

The mind has no option but to wander with its content (thoughts) as this is conditioned to do so.

In a sense even the conditioning itself is happening out of love (the driving force of the universe) only.......because its not in our control..i.e. not to get conditioned as this conditioning happens on its own.

Hence, it can safely be concluded that..LOVE IS ALL THERE IS.